Learn How to Pick Up Chicks
How to Pick Up Chicks
5 Facts You MUST Understand if You Are Ever Going to Avoid Rejection and Learn How to Pick Up Chicks
1. Much of the so-called ‘dating advice’ out there actually ruins your chances of picking up women. We’ll discuss those ‘profitable lies’ below, including what really works to attract quality women.
2. Acting like a ‘nice guy’ is actually the LEAST effective way for how to pick up chicks. We’ll explore what type of behavior REALLY works in a minute.
3. Pick-up lines and routines are NOT the best way to generate attraction in a woman you just met. Below I’ll tell you what you need to say and do around women to produce 10x better results than canned material.
4. You DON’T need to waste your money on expensive dating programs or audio coaching or pick-up manuals. I’ll show you later how to unlock the power of your own true personality to seduce more women than you could possibly handle.
5. Being handsome or rich has almost nothing to do with what women really want in a man. The most confident and successful guys in the world did not get results with women just because of their looks or the car they drove. Again, you’ll learn some of their secrets and what really works below.
SECRET #1: “Seduction is More Science Than Art Form, and the Few Who Know the Rules Have a Devastating Advantage Over Everyone Else…”
The first thing you have to realize is that attraction is not a choice. Women are automatically attracted to a set of pre-determined behaviors that convey your social standing and status. These factors have been determined by evolution; it is not a conscious, logical process.
When you learn how these behaviors work, you can then consciously demonstrate them to seduce women you want. Your behavior will communicate on a primal, instinctual level that you are a man of value. This will ignite her feelings of arousal and interest, no matter what.
Women simply do not place as much importance on looks as men do. A woman judges a guy based largely on how he appeals to her emotions. If you learn how to activate those “attraction switches,” you will know how to pick up chicks with ease, regardless of your physical appearance.
Women are hard-wired to follow their emotional thoughts and feelings, which are usually tied directly to their instinctual urges. That’s why so many women are seduced by the same “asshole” guys. Their logical brains tell them that they’ll be cheated on, treated poorly, and emotionally messed up. And that they’d be better off with some “nice guy.” They are usually right about that, but the female decision-making process — when attraction is concerned — strongly favors the excitement and challenge presented by the “bad boy.” They cannot help it.
That’s not to say that you have to (or should) become a “bad boy,” but it is important to understand how that type of guy appeals to the pre-determined female instincts. When you successfully combine certain alluring attributes of the “bad boy” with your own true personality, unencumbered by insecurity and social awkwardness, you will have beautiful women chasing you down.
As soon as you learn how to say and do things in a certain way, you will automatically trigger a woman’s attraction switches and you WILL be able to seduce her.
SECRET #2: “The Extreme Importance of Attitude, and Why You Must Develop the Ability to Radiate Rock-Solid Confidence”
Another trait women developed over the millenia is the ability to evaluate a man’s desirability almost instantly, by tallying up lots of miniscule factors relating to a man’s posture, how he moves around, what he does with his hands, his eyes, and more. Some call this “female intuition.”
This is the reasoning behind the saying, “First impressions are everything.” Because once a woman has a read on you — which usually takes less than 7 seconds — it is very difficult to get out of the mental category she puts you in: “potential mate” or “not worth my time.”
This is also a major problem with the vast majority of “dating guides” or “pick-up manuals” on the market today. They pretend that there are some magic words, or lines, or scripts that can “trick” a woman into being seduced by you. If you’ve ever tried using pickup lines on women before, you know how bogus that whole approach is.
Any attempts to attract a woman by “convincing” her, or otherwise manipulating her into believing in your desirability, will fail miserably. Instead you have to telegraph your value using the body language, speech patterns, and attitude of a confident, high-value man.
To have any success picking up women, you must demonstrate value. And that requires confidence. Not the “psyche-yourself-up” type of temporary so-called confidence that disappears right when you need it most, but true rock-solid confidence that seems to emanate from you constantly, driving women wild, conveying to everyone that you are a man that women find desirable and seductive.
With the right mindset and a few simple but revolutionary exercises, you can develop that confidence and attitude in a matter of hours. Seducing women flows naturally from there. Read on…
SECRET #3: “Why You Must Understand the Law of the Pedestal to Learn How to Pick Up Chicks…”
What women want, and what they say they want, are quite often two very different things.
Most women under 35 were raised on Disney movies. Their views on love and relationships have been shaped by the fairytale romance they were sold as little girls. You know, Prince Charming overcomes adversity to win the princess, and then everyone lives happily ever after.
Those views have been reinforced by unrealistic romance novels and romantic comedies designed to appeal to women’s fantasies.
That same chorus of crap has also been fed to us men since childhood. Movies, the media, and the so-called “experts” have filled our heads with useless junk.
We were never told that women are hard-wired — from thousands of years of evolution — to be attracted to certain traits in men. Never told that biology and instinct still matter.
In place of that knowledge, most men have accepted society’s lie that women’s affections can be bought — with flowers, or compliments, or a romantic dinner. And that you can lure a woman down from her white tower by simply communicating how you feel about her.
So we act all nice to the women we like, complimenting them, trying to convey our interest, trying to communicate that we are courting them.
But the Disney fantasy was a lie to begin with. The Prince Charming shtick simply does not work in the twenty-first century. These days, every attractive woman is constantly hit on, constantly complimented, constantly made to feel like a beautiful princess.
The attractive, high-quality woman became jaded to that whole approach long ago, and has since retreated up onto a pedestal, where she can survey all the guys coming on to her. She thinks, “Hmm, these guys are nice and all, but if they are all doing the same thing, there must be some other, high-quality guys who are different — harder to get.”
Now consider this: If a woman is up on a pedestal because a bunch of average guys made her realize she has a certain degree of value, but she doesn’t want to share her value with the guys around the base of her pedestal because she feels that she deserves better, WHAT WILL ATTRACT HER ATTENTION AND DESIRE?
The answer, of course, is a guy on a higher pedestal, someone with such a sense of self-worth that he barely notices her, if at all. A guy who she has to impress is one worth chasing — one worth her attention and affection.
Let that sink in for a minute. This is one of the most important things to really understand about human attraction: how value is perceived in the female mind.
In the words of renowned ladies’ man Casanova, “Be the flame, not the moth.”
When you learn how to raise your value — first in your mind, then in hers — you will shine like a brilliant flame and seduce beautiful women with ease.
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